25 things to do before i die

ahh finally here i am preparing a list of things that i will do before i die , there are so many things i wanna do , i might even skip some of them from this list just cos i wont remember them as of now : |

anyway id rather get started with my wishlist :P

i want to : =

1. skydive in Netherlands …. sky diving is the most freaking adventure sport eva and i so badly wana do it , get over ol the fears n jus jump into nothingness …

2. scuba-dive in Bermuda – i love water!! i would love to experience the wonderful life underwater!!

3.travel the whole world

4. climb mount Everest

5.trek to Tibet

6.trek to mount Kailas – going to happen sooner ( fingers crossed )

7.camp in Kenya game reserve

8.shop like crazy in paris

9. party in vegas

10.buy a corvette zr1

11.live the life of a monk

12.learn Tibetan Buddhism

13.make my own wildlife documentaries

14.have my own music album out(someday sooner)

15. get awards for photography

16.be a witness to the northern lights magic

17. eat like a pig without being bothered of getting fat :P

18. play basket ball for my country

19.wildlife safari

20. catch a wild anaconda in brazil ( like that on shows on animal planet :P )

21. tame a wild big cat

22. write a book

23. buy every jewellery i can possibly think of and that fantasizes me

24. learn to love myself ( only)

25. be filthy rich so that i can do every damn thing that i have just typed in .

 

i dont know if i can make this ol happen , but my faith keeps me in high spirits and i am sure if not all , i can make the most of these happen :D

 

so what’s your thing to do before u die?????

 

there are times in our lives when we all come across a point where we may be disappointed with almost everything that’s happening in our lives, trust me I’ve had that too and its so frustrating to see things happen exactly the way u would never want them to happen .. so what you do then??? many of us would curse themselves , blame , or just give up but these times are the best times to discover yourself , to know yourself , to know that you’re a feeling being , to know that your alive . it’s simpler for me to face such times , i indulge in everything that fascinates me , i travel , i write , i paint , i sing , i dance like crazy , i hog on food lol , i hang out with people , i go for long drives and listen to good music and what not … i know it’s hard to fight the feelings but you dont need to fight them , let them appear , acknowledge them and without given them a deeper thought let them go , don’t give them the power to become reality.

ive had friends break away , ive lost loved ones , ive had many things in life that i would not wish to happen but ive always had hope for better things to come and trust me they do happen,,,you just need patience.

when life gives you lemons !!! squeeze them and make a lemonade out of em!! :D

we need to remember that things happen only because we let them happen , there’s no god that should be blamed for what’s happening in our lives right now and when you are brave enough to take responsibility for your own life , for your own thoughts and for your own actions , you would see the magic happen , everything seems simpler and you would be a even more confident individual .

the biggest mistake that we make when any bad happens to us is that we immediately start finding reasons or excuses or we try to blame others for what we did, but the day when u can acknowledge the fact that its only you who governs and affects your life and your experiences , life would seem so much simpler and fun. you would never be disappointed with others,you would have lesser expectations and power struggles , you would not find your ego standing between your relationships and things that you’ve always wanted would seem as if falling into your feet , in fact on the first hand you would not have so many bad experiences :P

there is so much more to discover about yourself , there’s so much about u  for falling in love with yourself , why complain??? enjoy life… bow down for those you love and care for , let go of the ego and mend your broken relations with friends ,family and lovers , tell them how much you love them  because god would need them back someday , have hope , have faith , be fearless and brave  , believe in yourself  and never give up , fall in love with yourself , you’re a miracle.

food for your mind and soul

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okay so i was reading this wonderful article on some website and i found that its worth sharing with all of my readers , just another effort to make your lives brighter …. keep smiling, stay healthy , stay fit… lots of love to all !!

To achieve mental balance, I have to make a habit of reminding myself of a few important things that I think we all tend to forget when there is a black cloud looming over our heads.  
 
1. Do not lose sight of what truly matters. Does that clogged sink signify the end of the world? Are you going to remember or even care that the stranger you smiled at in the coffee shop didn’t smile back? When we’re having a bad day, we seem to zoom in on petty things and complain about them. Next time you’re pulling your hair out over something, ask yourself if it really matters. 
 
2. It is okay to be alone or pull back from the world. Sometimes we just need to step back and re-evaluate a situation, a relationship, or just life in general. When I went through my healing period, I spent a lot of time alone as I tried to become my own best friend again. If you need to go into hiding for awhile and work on stitching yourself back up, take the time to do that. It is so important to pull back and spend quality time with yourself every now and then.
 
3. You are not always in control. You cannot predict when certain things will or should happen, or how everything will turn out. Sometimes you just have to stop pushing and let go.
 
4. What other people think is irrelevant. I was a miserable slave to the opinions of others. It got to a point where I was trying so hard to please everyone but myself. Don’t let your immediate reaction to criticism be to change whatever it is you’re being criticized for. Do whatever feels right to you, regardless of what other people have to say about it.
 
5. Don’t give up. If you’re fighting for something that means a lot to you, do not stop fighting whenever you happen to fall short. Remember why you are fighting for it.
 
6. You don’t have to know all the answers. No one ever has life all figured out. We are always learning and growing. Life itself is a mystery and it’s okay to feel clueless sometimes.
 
7. You are enough. All of us have had times in our lives where we have thought, “I’m not smart enough or pretty enough or strong enough or exciting enough to do _____.” Give yourself a chance instead of forming limiting beliefs.
 
8. Stay present. Try not to dwell on the past or worry about the future. Take everything one day at a time.
 
9. Your feelings will not kill you. I know that heartbreak, grief, depression, or resentment might make you feel like you’re dead and breathing, but you have the strength to get through whatever life throws at you. Hold on and see yourself through it.
 
10. You are human. This is probably the biggest reminder of them all. You will make mistakes. You will hurt other people and other people will hurt you. You won’t always feel happy and positive. Next time you feel the urge to beat yourself up over any of these things, remind yourself that you are an imperfect human being instead.

Imagethere are times when i am lonely ,

when i am afraid of the dark of my own thoughts

i try to fight back the emotions

that bring me back to the truth of not having you with me

the pain of loosing someone cannot be expressed in words.

sooner a day or later , the truth will find its way

the seeker shall know what lies beyond

the hopes should find their way

it is those who have waited ,will find their way

n i am sure , someday …ul be by my side …

till then …i shall wait and cling to my faith…

being strong